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My children’s comfort blanket

September 14, 2009 By: jill Category: For Babies and Mommies, Mommy Jill, child development 3 Comments →

I was working inside my room when suddenly I heard my 2-year old boy cry incessantly.  I went out and found out that their last three remaining red old smelly and flat pillows had gone to my mom-in-law’s laundry.

THE RED OLD SMELLY FLAT PILLOWS

Originally, they had 8 red old smelly flat pillows.  We have tried to slowly replace them with the same red pillows but the minor differences were so obvious for them.  My children’s senses have worked so good on this thing.  These red old smelly and flat pillows have become a part of my children’s life.  Anywhere they go,  whether they move on to another room in the house, they would bring them to just lie on for pleasure or sleep onto it. No matter how old it looks like and how smelly it can be, they just love it!

BREAKING THE ATTACHMENT

My mom-in-law had been wanting to take it away from my children. We all know how attached they are to those red old smelly and flat pillows.  It’s what we know as Comfort Blankets or Toys. But my mom-in-law always remembers the girl from the Pinoy Big Brother (Teen Edition, I think) who had to face all her fear that her old rugged tattered doll had to be taken away from her. The feeling was just so hard and my mom-in-law just doesn’t want it to happen to my kids.  She wants to break the attachment as early as possible.

FIRST NIGHT

Tonight will be the first bedtime without those red old smelly and flat pillows.  I am sure they would still fall into sleep however, there might be some unexpected tantrums or lots of comforting on our part.  As parents, it’s important to be the best comfort to my upset and frustrated kids.  This would be a very emotional time for my kids but I hope it wouldn’t cause any harm to their character as they grow up.

Read more about this.  Why children become so attached to toys and comfort blankets?


@ Chef’s Quarter

September 11, 2009 By: jill Category: Dining Out No Comments →

 

Are you looking for a quality fine dining at a very reasonable cost? It’s here at Chef’s Quarter.

 

Recently, our (couple) bonding moment is eating out after our OB-Gyne Day. - Sept. 5, 2009

For last Saturday’s visit, we had our sumptuous dinner at Chef’s Quarter

which is located at The Atrium of SM Megamall (second level).

It is a restaurant and wine bar that offers continental (international) food

that are truly delectable to the taste.

It has the elegance of fine dining within a mall.

It is neat and classy.   The service is good.  Better try it!

 

For wine lovers,

it is a good place to stop and have a drink

alone or with family and friends while at the mall.

The buffet meal that we had is at PhP550.00 for each and it is just so right.

From appetizers, salads, main course, roasted beef and pork, pastas, deserts. It’s all there.

 

We had our rounds of plates and here they are.  Sorry, I just can’t remember some of the names.

Your choice of pasta and sauce.  It is well-presented and it will be delivered to your table.

I didn’t want to miss any up to the dessert.  It’s just so mouth watering.

We gladly and voluntarily finished our food.

There is no reason for leaving leftovers.

Moving On To My 36th Week

September 10, 2009 By: jill Category: For Babies and Mommies, Mommy Jill, My Pregnancy No Comments →

Ready! Set! Gooo!!!!

No, not yet! I have yet less than 2 weeks to go.  After the hump, (on the 36th week) the baby and I can be in full swing to start the labor.  As of last Satruday, the baby is already in her right birth position.  It’s good but she has to wait for the right time. That should be on her 37th week.

This bump is really heavy and makes me get so tired easily.  I can’t sit or stand for very long.  But lying down sideways makes me feel more comfortable.  I feel like my whole body is being stretched to its limit especially when the baby moves.  I have swollen legs and feet.  From my original 45 lbs. I am now 63 lbs.


What Mommy is doing?

I am doing all I can not to hasten to the labor mode.

  • take plenty of rest - or bed rest if necessary especially important for mothers who had previous preterm labor.
  • eat just right for myself and the baby  - I haven’t felt the need to overfed myself even if I want to at this time.  My tummy is just so full because the baby’s size has grown.  My doctor advised that if I want to have a normal delivery I should start to diet.
  • continue to drink my pre-natal medicines - Since the baby has grown rapidly, the more that I need to supplement her needs, as well as mine.
  • walks for some exercise - I know some mothers who can still do so many things at this stage (just as I was). But for mothers like me who had previous preterm labor light activities are highly suggested.

Sunday Sunshine in my Soul #1

September 06, 2009 By: jill Category: Our Home, Sunday Sunshine, mommy moments 1 Comment →

Sunday is the best day to reflect and gives thanks to God for all that we’ve had for the past week whether temporal or spiritual. While listening to Episode 1 of  Music with Message in Mormon Channel, I got inspired to write what gives “sunshine in my soul” today.

It is a rainy Sunday morning.  Oh! I missed the First Sunday in Church today.  I was even awaiting for this day to share my testimony before I give birth this month.  It is now impossible for the audience to hear it but I am glad that I can still write some of my thoughts on what gives “sunshine in my soul”.

  • The Gospel of Jesus Christ. Its truthfulness is what continues to give me happiness with what I have.

  • My baby’s ultrasound yesterday. Two weeks to go.

  • My dinner date with hubby last night.

  • My work-at-home-mom job.

  • Sophia and Calixto.

  • Family Quality Time. Playing with the kids, praying and reading the scriptures with them.

  • The good health that we have.

  • The helps that we get from people who care for us.  My -inlaws, househelpers, friends, etc.

  • Our financial capacity to provide for the needs of our family as well as little of our wants too.

  • The comforts that we have. The house that we live in, the car that my husband drives.

We always have to be thankful for what we have.
This will be my first ever post and I hope to continue giving gratitude as much as I can by putting them all together on

Sunday Sunshine in my Soul.

I intend to share this to everyone whatever race or religion you live by.

Spread the Sunshine!



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Mommy Moments- Dress Up Day!

September 05, 2009 By: jill Category: Baby Stuff, For Babies and Mommies, child development, mommy moments 2 Comments →

Dress Up Day is the theme for this week’s Mommy Moments.  It can be any character costumes or formal dresses that they have worn.

Here are some of the pictures of my kids in chronological order.

 

Sophia’s First Birthday (March 2007)

Our Little Mermaid

@Somethin’ Fishy (Ewood, Libis)

Our Little Wonderwoman

@ BK, Cainta.

It wasn’t a blue christmas for us but we were dressed in blue

for Christmas 2007.

 

Calixto’s First Birthday (April 2008)

Our Little Cowboy (@Fun Ranch)

 

My Kiddos’ Sunday Attire are always formal.

 

Finally,

me and my kids are dressed in white with angel wings.

Taken 2008, this was my creative shot for our Yearbook before I graduated college. I included my two kids since they were with me all throughout my college life.  From conception to birth.

We survived it because we are ANGELS. =)

~The End~

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